Toastmasters has been a fun activity for me for the past few years. I tried it out because I’d heard great things about it from friends and I thought it might help my writing – you have to write your own speeches. Speeches are essentially stories about how you feel (an opinion like wildlife conservation), an experience you’ve had (like travelling solo), or something you know (like floristry). Quite often you end up researching something you’re curious about and becoming even more interested.
There are lots of other opportunities too. This week I’m presenting the Salute to the Theme. For two minutes I’ll talk about the theme, What advice would you give your younger self? There are plenty of ways to tackle this and I could talk about studying more, listening to your father or backpacking through Europe. Maybe don’t get a perm. But I’m going to talk about doing things that build self-confidence and self-reliance and being part of a group or team.
Learning new skills gives you a sense of achievement which makes you feel good about yourself. Mixing those skills with other people makes you feel integrated, useful and joyful. Toastmasters includes all these things.
The group encourages you in every task, whether it be a speech or preparing morning tea. Everyone has a role on the day. There’s plenty of praise and evaluations involve the sandwich technique: point of praise, point for improvement, point of praise. So, you get better all the time.
I’ve read that one of the key indicators of longevity is sociability. People who talk to their neighbours, volunteer in community activity and join clubs, live longer.
My advice to my younger self would be Join in! Have a go! Learn something, don’t be afraid to make mistakes or worry what people will think. If you’re mixing with like-minded people, they’ll want you to succeed as well. Not being reliant on others, emotionally or physically, but being happy to give, share and accept help, as in a team, means you’ll be a stronger happier person; one who’s achieving what they want in life and who others are attracted to.
When it comes down to one line, I’d say join Girl Guides.
Well expressed, Carla.
Love your writings
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I did a Toastmasters course when I was new to the workforce – many, many decades ago.
I totally agree with you. It was such a great skill to learn, especially relatively early in my adult life. I have very little fear of public speaking now, and I’m sure it’s all down to Toastmasters.
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Well Said Carla!
PS love the ‘younger self’ photo, especially your very cool vest!
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Thanks Kim. It was leather with matching skirt!
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Your writing inspires me Carla, I do do do so much &don’t take the time to muuuusse & take notes or even draw which I’d love to do more often. 🙏
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I hope you can pick up that pencil or charcoal soon and create a drawing habit starting with 10 minutes a day! You deserve it!
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As always, very thought provoking. Got me thinking about my younger self who never listened to anyone because she knew it all……
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Ah that ol’ thing! Every teenager’s problem!
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