We all know that Facebook can be both friend and foe. It can be the most fabulous connector and tool for sharing, and it can be a dismal platform for self-aggrandisement and unkindness. But since I use it in a positive way and have great success with it, I want to share some of my joy. In the last few years, much of that joy has come from Groups.
Living in two areas, one in Sydney and one down the south coast, I’m lucky to be included in two area Facebook Groups. Both are full of locals spreading news, asking questions and helping each other out. Sure, there’s the occasional sarcastic comment or harsh judgement, but mostly, it’s a source of information and generosity. I’ve found a cleaner, a handyman, and a gardener by asking for recommendations. I’ve heard about the dangerous intersections and local dramas, lost dogs and found rings, where the pizza van is and when the markets are on. I’ve read stories and shared stories of my own. I feel a part of the community and would encourage anyone new to the area to join.
An inspirational Group I’ve joined is Solo in Style: Women over 50 Travelling Solo and Loving It! It’s a convoluted name but it’s a great support network. Women share their journeys, not their whole holidays as they might with their friends, but as situational sisters, offering tips and warnings, asking questions like how to pack super-light or how to handle being placed in a back corner by a disrespectful maître de. Travellers ask how to explore a place most efficiently and get given advice so good I find myself making notes. Emotional support is offered when someone is lonely, and fearful newbies are encouraged and congratulated. Experienced soloers share their knowledge and it’s much appreciated. It’s a community of well-wishers and every woman in it is evolving.
The latest addition to my Facebook Groups is Toyota HiAce Australia. I recently bought a HiAce I’m planning to fit out as a camper, so I’m finding this niche group so helpful and a real treasure trove of ideas.
I’m a member of writing groups too, of course, and even a photography group.
It would be easy to while away the time scrolling through them all, but I don’t. I join in when I’m interested, or when I need something.
Facebook Groups connect us with like-minded people and allow us access to knowledge, experience, and support that we wouldn’t have otherwise. I think they’re great. What about you?
Carla Simmons Writer 